Paulina's Boxing Challenge

I first came to Saint Francis Hospice during my student nurse placement in 2021, and it taught me so much about caring for people at the end of life. When my dad died in January 2025, I knew I wanted to do something meaningful in his memory. Last year was incredibly hard as I processed my grief and faced all the “firsts”, but now I feel ready to move forward with purpose. 

I’ve always enjoyed boxing for fun, so when my neighbour told me about the Ultra White Collar Boxing event, I thought, why not? After Dad died, I made a promise to myself to start saying yes to new things. 

The programme involved eight weeks of training, twice a week, where you’re matched with someone of similar ability. It was intense, but it gave me a real sense of focus and was so positive for both my physical and mental health. Having something physical helped me channel my grief, and my faith carried me through it all. 

The fight took place on 28 March at the Circus Tavern in Purfleet, and the atmosphere was incredible. The room was packed with my family and friends, and even people who didn’t know me were cheering my name. It was overwhelming, but in the best way. I felt calm and excited throughout the day, like I had mentally prepared myself for that moment. 

The fight itself was tougher than I expected. My opponent was strong and kept the pressure on, especially going for my head, which I found overwhelming at times. I only managed one round after hurting my neck, but I’m still proud of myself for stepping into the ring. 

Even with the result, I don’t feel disappointed. Just getting in the ring was an achievement in itself. Raising more than £400 for Saint Francis Hospice means so much to me. I did this in memory of my Dad, and to give something back to the Hospice at Home team who cared for him. I’m so grateful to everyone who supported me, and I’m already looking for ways to continue fundraising in the future.